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When it comes to small talk you donât have to chase the conversation. Just let it come to you. If you want to initiate the interaction go ahead, but you can just as easily be in the passenger seat. Either way itâs helpful if youâre prepared with something to say.
Sports fits the bill for me and it works for a LOT of people youâll encounter too. Itâs why this list of sports conversation starters can be helpful and keep you in the loop with big storylines this week.
In sports you often hear about the dangers of âtrying to do too much.â In theory working harder trying harder sounds like a good thing, but it rarely leads to the intended results.
I think you could say the same thing about small talk. Donât try to do too much. Keep it simple, and come prepared with sports topics like these.
In business and sports we spend a lot of time talking about results and outcomes. Thereâs nothing wrong with that, but thereâs so much more we could incorporate into the conversation. For example, if youâre talking about the games you watched this weekend you could mention who you watched the game with or which friends you were texting with during the game.
If youâre talking about the end of the baseball season and how your team fared you could include how long youâve been a fan of the team.
In both of those examples, one additional detail opens an entirely new conversation path and makes it easier to engage in small talk.
These sports topics can get the ball rolling.
It was only after we started taping this episode of I Cook, You Measure that Mariners closer Andres Munoz revealed he canât actually cook. A somewhat surprising revelation considering heâs the one who recommended this recipe and jumped at the chance to share a dish thatâs common in his home town in Mexico.
Turns out he didnât need to know how to cook because this Aguachiles recipe requires no cooking and very little measuring. Itâs the fastest and easiest recipe weâve ever made on I Cook, You Measure. My only word of warning is that it packs a spicy punch. I find it delicious, but if youâre uncertain you might want to leave out the serrano pepper. You can watch the Andres Munoz episode of I Cook, You Measure presented by Safeway here.
Here is the ingredients list if you want to cook along
And if you want even more from Andres Munoz you'll enjoy this ride to the ballpark, at least I did. It's a show called Can I Drive Your Car? and the truck owned by Andres was a little bigger than...
There are a number of reasons people avoid or dread small talk. Some believe itâs a waste of time (itâs not, unless you want it to be) and others are intimidated or anxious talking to people they donât know.
Which is a bit of a Catch-22. Small talk helps build relationships. You wonât move out of that awkward stage of getting to know people without those small interactions. Hereâs how you can make things easier â look for the sports fans and ask about the game.
You probably know which colleagues follow sports and sports fans can be easy to spot when theyâre wearing team/school logos. Tee up a conversation about their favorite team and you wonât need to search for what to say next. And donât tune out because you think sports doesnât matter at work. Youâre listening for information thatâs useful in follow up conversations and segues into other topics, when theyâve finished their sports comments, of course.
If you want to contribute more than your listening skills to the conversation...
I always get excited for the start of the NFL season and based on the numbers Iâm not the only one. The NFL averaged 21 million viewers per game during the leagueâs opening week last week. Those numbers are up 12% from last year.
That means even if you didnât watch the NFL your colleagues and friends probably did. Viewership numbers will fluctuate throughout the season, but there is a huge appetite for football and the NFL.
Fans arenât just fans on game day. Theyâre fans every day of the week and they often want a chance to talk about their favorite teams, players, outcome, etc⌠Keep that in mind if youâre looking for easy ways to start conversations this week. Get things rolling with questions like:
Or you can use any of the topics listed below.
If you like cheese with your eggs or on your eggs, then might I suggest Cheddar Fried Eggs and this episode of I Cook, You Measure with Kate Scott.
Kate is an all-around bad ass. Sheâs the voice of the Philadelphia 76ers, but sheâs also called play-by-play for NFL, NHL, NCAA Division I football, the Olympics and a FIFA World Cup. Just added to her resume, Madden 25. Thatâs right sheâs an announcer for the classic football video game.
Sports talk is on the table, but so is an impressive (but ridiculously simple) brunch item. Picture a large cheese crisp topped with perfectly fried eggs and a bright herb salad. I promise youâre going to want to cook along with Kate and I and perfect this recipe for your next weekend brunch.
For years I heard Pete Carroll say, âItâs not how you start, itâs how you finish.â It was certainly true for the Seahawks game I covered Sunday and itâs often true in small talk.
Informal interactions can be clunky, especially when few people strategize small talk. But fear not. Contrary to popular belief, you donât have to make a great first impression to leave âem on a high note. All you need is a versatile conversation topic that leads to natural follow up conversations. Sports does that, and the topics listed below can help this week.
Despite his hesitation around knives and in a kitchen in general, Steve Zakuani joins me to cook a pescatarian dinner - Fish Florentine.
Steve was the first overall pick by the Seattle Sounders in the 2009 MLS expansion draft and is a legend in the Seattle soccer community.
He might also become a legend in the kitchen after cooking a restaurant quality meal. Here are the ingredients:
The dinner was delicious and belongs on a restaurant menu. You'll impress your family and friends by making this super easy dish.Â
You'll also take away a few pieces of advice from the conversation that took place about Steve's career transition from the Bonus Bites episode.Â
Labor Day is the unofficial end of summer, but itâs also the start of an exciting sports month that includes NFL regular season games, playoff races in baseball and the WNBA.
Thatâs just a few of the things happening in sports right now that might lead to more interesting conversations than talking about family vacations. (Although thatâs just a guess because sometimes the vacation stories are real doozies.) Either way, here are a list of sports topics that could come up in small talk this week.
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